DYKE NIGHT • CHANGES TO OUR PROGRAMMING

March 9, 2004

Dear Dyke Night Supporters,

Dyke Night entered its 6th year in December, and the vision that gave genesis to Dyke Night was to fill a void in lesbian nightlife while helping to raise money for grassroots and nonprofit causes.  Dyke Night has certainly lived up to this mission and grown beyond what I had ever expected thanks to you!   We’ve had a phenomenal time of it.  However, I'm writing because to tell you IDyke Night Productions will end its weekly "Dyke Night @ the Midway" Thursday night event on Thursday April 29th. 

For our last weeks, we’d love to see you each and hope you will come by to say your goodbyes.  I will be putting together special events to CELEBRATE and showcase our work over the years.  We will host a blow out farewell party on the 29th and would like to invite back all our past (and new!) performers to participate in farewell performance shows during this time, please email if you’d like to perform at dykenight@hotmail.com .

It has been an amazing 6 years! In reflection, I would like to share with you some of the highlights of Dyke Night @ the Midway Café and what you each have made possible by your support over the years:

  • Dyke Night at the Midway Café made history by being Boston's longest running lesbian night and our longevity in the same space with the same management became an example of what is possible with collaboration and community.
  • The success of Dyke Night opened up opportunities for other promoters to begin similar nights (i.e. one of our past regulars started a Dyke Night in Philly!) and provided a regular audience for promotion.
  • Dyke Night further put lesbian nightlife on the map.  Even as a small venue, the work of Dyke Night has been esteemed by Boston Magazines Best of Boston "Best Lesbian Club" honor three consecutive years, along with two years as “Best Dyke Night” by Boston Phoenix and the first time a women’s night has won the audience choice award for “Best Gay Bar” by Boston's Citysearch. 
  • The Dyke Night stage has given countless performers their start and an audience to share their talents, opened up the drag king movement for amateurs, and brought high quality events and special entertainment to our lives.
  • Most importantly to me, Dyke Night, with your support, has helped countless efforts in Boston by not only hosting fundraisers but also by making a weekly commitment to donate at least 25% of our profit to grassroots and nonprofit causes, and for the first year and a half, 100% of the door was given directly to these efforts.  This was the first time Boston lesbian entertainment and philanthropy had been partnered in such a consistent way.
  • Dyke Night has been a proud funder of Boston Queer Agenda (Hannah's List), The Network/La Red, AIDS Care Project, Spontaneous Celebrations, Theater Offensive, Pathways to Wellness, Sheila Trapnell Memorial Fund, Ms. Boston Leather Association, Raelyn Gallina, Lesbian AIDS Project of MA, Boston Living Center, Cambridge Cares About AIDS and many others. 

Ending our weekly event has been a profoundly difficult decision to make, both personally and professionally. I will greatly miss seeing you at the Midway each Thursday and have so enjoyed all the fun we’ve had over the years.  The void our weekly Thursday Dyke Night stepped in to fill in 1998 is no longer needed with the many options available to queer people in Boston currently.  It is my time now to move forward with other endeavors where there still exists a void, bring renewed energy to my position as Executive Director of Pathways To Wellness, and place a focus on nurturing the quality of my own health and wellness.  Although we won’t be hosting a weekly event, Dyke Night Productions will continue to produce special events, fundraisers, pride parties and  wedding planning.

I would like to thank each of you for your support over the many years.  I would especially like to thank David & Jay Balerna, the Midway owners, who took a big risk back in 1998 when a 20-something bleached blond crew cut dyke (yes, me...see its been a long, long time!) approached them to forge a partnership that has become, as Boston magazine put it, a phenomenal 'dysfunctional family!'   My profound heartfelt thanks to Jasmine, who has been by my side Thursday nights year after year to greet you with her kind smile, and put up with my Virgo perfectionism!  To all our DJs over the years who thought our mission was important enough to join our team:  Kevin, Matty, Eileen, Denise, Mel, Kristin, Susan.  To Debbie who kept me sane during the first several years of Dyke Night both in and out of the club and kept things going when my day job got in the way!  To all the performers who shared with us their many talents, and always jumped in to offer themselves for the many unpaid benefits I've produced (too many to list—but know individually you are each so beloved!) To the press for showcasing the work of Dyke Night, particularly Innewsweekly and Bay Windows, and especially RJ Grubb.  To other promoters/producers who I have had the joy to work with, especially Gunner, Amatul, Melinda, Hannah, Shannon, Beth and Eve.  To our bartenders: Colleen, Gin, Ange, Elizabeth and Diane. To my friends and confidants who have continuously supported my efforts even though we joke that we are way too old to be out on a Thursday night!  Finally, my family, who has always challenged me with what's next and infused in me a deep sense of gratitude and a passion for helping others. 

Stay tuned to the website for information of what we will be putting together for our last weeks!  We hope to see you each over this time period as we say farewell to the space that has brought together many couples, seen its share of drama!, had 2 on stage wedding proposals, and has been a refuge for many who have made Dyke Night the 'Cheers for Dykes!'

 I am very proud of the work and mission of Dyke Night over the years, and our ability to use it as a venue that has donated over $20,000 to LGBT causes!  Thank YOU for making Dyke Night more than just a nightspot- and truly a community that has been active in supporting one another!  

Hugs, Kisses and Tons of Love,

Kristen Porter